Pte Daniel Wade, 20, died with five comrades when a Taliban bomb blew their armoured vehicle apart. Hundreds lined the streets for his funeral, attended by his grief-stricken fiancee Emma Hickman, 19 — who is pregnant with their daughter Lexie-Mai, due next month. He also said the young soldier, who served with 3rd Battalion the Yorkshire Regiment, had gone through rigorous medical tests before he was allowed to join the Army, after major surgery on a hole in his heart at the age of five.
Dan loved Emma dearly and was over the moon she was going to be the mother of his daughter, Lexie. Daniel was killed in Helmand on March 6 in the deadliest single attack on British forces in Afghanistan since By Steve White.
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Almost Gone: Twenty-Five Days and One Chance to Save Our Daughter by John Baldwin
So if you know my father, remember he's a man, and you would crave relief if people judged everything you did. The lord says to forgive them, don't be the one to stone The lives he's changed, the friends he's made, the people he's inspired It makes me sad to see my dad defeated and so tired. If you knew my father, you would know just how he's hurting For he loves every one of you, regardless of your story.
And if you met my father, I know he'd give you love! He'd lift you up, apologize and give you all a hug.
For those who think you know my father, remember who you are. We all can make mistakes and carry ugly scars. Because I know my father, I can promise this- Just like you and I, things we don't mean can sometimes slip. We all continue learning. This life can be so rough So if you know my father, please try not to be tough. It wasn't until I flew home and read the article on the front page of the morning newspaper that I learned my father had gotten up before dawn that Monday morning, retrieved a hunting rifle from the crawl space underneath our house, and shot himself in our laundry room.
Horrible, yes. Accident, no. Why would my father do such a thing? Everyone wanted to know. Was he depressed?
Why My Dad Committed Suicide
Did he simply have too much on his plate? Was there something else going on that we didn't know about? Did he think that killing himself in our laundry room might make the cleanup easier? Why on a Monday at 5 a. Why on the day after Mother's Day?
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I didn't have any answers. The questions and speculations swirled around in my head for years. I used to think that had my father been feeling suicidal in or instead of , he would be alive today. He would have benefited from widespread suicide awareness, readily available information about the inherent health risks among men his age, and a plethora of anti-depressant advertisements on TV. But now I'm not so sure.
We still have a long way to go.
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According to the CDC , suicide is the 10th leading cause of death for Americans, and the rates are highest among people ages 45 to Within that group, most are white men who live in the west, and firearms are the most commonly used method of death by suicide. My dad could have been the poster child for these statistics. Like Robin Williams and the other high-profile men who have committed suicide before him, my father was well-known, well-liked, well-educated, well-connected, dangerously funny, and was at the top of his game. A successful physician, my dad seemingly had it all: a waterfront home, a thriving private practice, three bright daughters, and several leadership positions within the community.
Why, people would ask, would someone throw all of that away? Why leave the children fatherless? Why not stick around to see the daughters through graduations, first dates, or first careers? Why not be there to walk them down the aisle? Take your future grandchildren out for ice cream in your beloved speedboat?
Why, especially if you were a smart and a well-respected physician, wouldn't you seek treatment for your disease? Many wrongly assume that suicide is selfish , that it is a convenient escape for when things go sour. But here's the thing: I'm the selfish one.